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IGNITED

BARBIE LADEVEZE

 2X #1 BESTSELLING AUTHOR  

RELATIONSHIP & DIVORCE STRATEGIST 

Informed

Inspired

Ignited

BARBIE LADEVEZE

#1 AMAZON BESTSELLING AUTHOR, RELATIONSHIP STRATEGIST, FAMILY MEDIATOR, ENTREPRENEUR 

Barbie Ladeveze

"Happily ever-after is not a fairy-tale... it's a choice!"

- Barbie Ladeveze

 

Welcome!

I'm Barbie Ladeveze

 

Your expert guide to navigating divorce and reentering the dating world.

If you're here, it's because you're ready to take control of your life and embrace new beginnings. With my extensive experience and proven strategies, I am your most valuable resource on this journey.

Explore my collection of FREE resources, comprehensive trainings, and actionable steps designed to empower you. Discover new insights, elevate your approach to life, and find the love you deserve.

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Barbie Ladeveze

About

 

Barbie is a 14-year Family Law Mediator and Relationship Strategist who has witnessed firsthand hours of cases in the courtroom and succeeded at every challenging turn. Her communication degree launched her career first as a publicist for Cartoon Network Latin America then a journalist for CNN in the United States. She is fluent in Spanish and today is a proud business owner and mother.  She is an advocate for self-education and her platform focuses on the most effective strategies and techniques for mastering your emotions, your relationships, your finances, and your life!  She resides in beautiful Southern California with her family and consistently aspires to bring the best out of those who are struggling with family and relationship dynamics. Her mission is to guide uncertain families to future certainty and wholeheartedly believes everyone has the power to accomplish anything their heart desires as long as they are willing to apply themselves.

 

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"Happily ever-after is not a fairy-tale... it's a choice!"

- Barbie Ladeveze

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Relationship Coaching

 Relationship Coaching

Are you at a point in your life you had hoped to be further ahead? Do you feel stuck, unappreciated, and unable to gain clarity, yet deep down know there is more to your existence? Are you willing to make the necessary life changes? Look no further-I'm your coach. Nice to meet you.  

I understand what you're experiencing. During my most vulnerable and challenging times, I had no family nearby to turn to, and it took immense strength to overcome and forgive. With time and support, I realized the need to shift out of old, limiting belief and patterns. This shifted EVERYTHING for me. Today, my uniquely designed strategies teach how to overcome adversity.  

You have amazing capabilities deeply rooted within you, and I can help unveil them. I am a reliable source of encouragement, guiding you  towards clarity, strength, prosperity and health. I transform misfortunes into opportunities that lead to an unwavering and unstoppable YOU!  

My methodologies and  strategies are attainable for future success. If you feel stuck now and desire radical, lasting change in all aspects of your life, then I'm here for you!

 

"People will forget what you said and did but they will never forget how you made them feel."

- Maya Angelou (Paraphrased)

 

 

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Publications


Publications


2X #1 Bestselling Author

Legal information shouldn’t be locked behind expensive attorney fees

Ever wondered how to litigate in family law without breaking the bank?  Do you wish you knew how to agree to disagree in family law and win?

Overcoming your preconceived thoughts IS the solution to a speedy divorce.  Mind over matter is the verdict!  

This book is designed to walk you through key areas of divorce that undoubtedly embody a range of extreme emotions and dashes of humor along the way.  

It was written with you in mind.

 

 

SHOCKING!

 Among the real life experiences in this book, you will discover it is possible to do the following:

  • Divvy your assets¬†and divorce amicably
  • Make family law work for you
  • Customize a parenting plan that suits you and your lifestyle
  • Gain immediate access to support
  • Litigate solo with little to no money
  • Avoid criminal court in family law matters
  • Effectively¬†co-parent without hatred or aggression
  • Overcome challenges for a move-away with children
  • Get what you¬†want,¬†when you want it, regardless of the impossible
  • Become a better and radiating version of yourself
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A MUST READ filled with humor and heart!  

This powerful book turns the tables for those uncertain in love, putting an end to dating games and surprising serial daters.

Barbie's confidence shines through in these infused pages, where she shares intimate details, insights, and examples for handling the personality types that don't complement you, while focusing on those that do.

Among the many topics discussed, this book is filled with humor for both the young and seasoned. It illustrates that with the right mindset, you can change your romantic destiny.

Witty, thought-provoking, and informative, this book is ideal for apprehensive singles struggling to take that leap of faith in love, preparing them to make wise decisions in their romantic lives.

 

 

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Courses


                            

Courses


Strategic courses carefully designed for ambitious divorcees in mind.

 

Particularly for those looking to personally improve and overcome the fear of rejection when entering the dating world after a breakup or divorce...  especially, while co-parenting.

These courses offer valuable strategies to help you identify your essence, and true desires from a companion to avoid repeated patterns.

Whether you're emerging from a divorce or have lost the zest for love and socializing, this course will undoubtedly inspire and motivate you to find the love you deserve!

Strategic Coupling

How to rediscover the new you destined to find and commit to "your final one"

Are you ready to start dating again? This course is designed for ambitious singles and divorcees to navigate dating challenges and attract the love you truly deserve. Discover how to unveil and attract your ideal mate without settling.

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Strategic Un-coupling

How to undo your "I Dos" amicably without retaining an attorney

This course is designed to help you navigate the shark infested legal arena on your own with confidence and outside of the court. I walk you through important steps in the process, give you insight to your coparenting agreement and diving your property and assets amicably so, you both can move forward while respecting the laws as written. This course will save you time, energy and tens of thousands of dollars.

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What students are saying about Strategic Un-coupling:

Bruce in Austin, TX


"I guarantee this instruction will be time well spent if you are contemplating a divorce! Listen intently and take to heart what she has to say as it will save you time, grief and a sizable amount of money, not to mention reduce your stress level tenfold vis-à-vis going through a conventional divorce with attorneys."

Don in Temecula, CA


"Thank you Barbie for sharing your strategies, wisdom and skills during a difficult time. Your competitive and flexible nature taught me there is a smarter way to divorce with kids than I was led to believe. I am amazed at how much money you've saved me."

Klara in Boulder, CO


"I found Barbie is a heart centered, authentic and skillful teacher. I learned that her tools, techniques and strategies came from school of hard knocks. Her personal and professional experience has been a great contribution to many."

 

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            Mr.& Mrs. X

A PRIVATE COMMUNITY for Ambitious Divorcees


Designed with everything in mind related to relationships...from divorce, dating, parenting to weddings and vacations.

Truly the best resource guide to an all-in-one place.

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Mr.& Mrs. X

 

A PRIVATE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY

Empowering broken spirits to find love again

Designed with everything related to relationships in mind... from divorce, dating, co-parenting, parenting to weddings and vacations.

 

Truly the best resource guide to an all-in-one place.


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2025 Love Summit

 

Join us February 2025

Our first virtual 2021 Love Summit took place during a worldwide pandemic that brought likeminded people together looking for love in a conflicting world.  It was enlightening, educational, fun and entertaining.  The featured international guest list of influencers spoke in their respective fields of love, dating, divorce, coparenting, finance, transformation and health.  The event left audience feeling inspired, hopeful and invigorated towards a brighter tomorrow.   

Entertainment by the talented Mallory Kate and accompanist was an added plus!   

 

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The Love Summit

 

Join us in February 2022

This year's first-ever virtual summit took place during a worldwide pandemic that brought people together looking for substance to a fun and entertainment event and it delivered more with health and entertainment.  The featured international guest list of influencers spoke on their respective fields in relations to love, dating, divorce, coparenting, finance, transformation and health. The event left guest and audience alike, entertained, inspired, hopeful and invigorated to a brighter tomorrow.   

Entertainment by the talented Mallory Kate and accompanist was an added plus!   

 

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Podcast

Podcast


"Life is a gift unbeknown to man where free agency is granted, blessings are poured and love takes its many forms.  When life happens for you, embrace it!  It was designed with you in mind and what you do with it's gift, determines your destiny.  You want joy...embody it, you want love... share it, you want peace... give it."

- Barbie Ladeveze  

Be certain to CHECK BACK SOON!

Barbie will be releasing one podcast a week to keep you informed, inspired and ignited with all things related to LOVE, RELATIONSHIPS and DATING.

~ I'd love to hear from you on topics you would be interested in hearing.  I want to make it fun and maybe even bring on guest that will uplift, give hope and encouragement.  

Want to join me?  Email me at [email protected].


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YOUTUBE Channel

Join weekly for passionate, intriguing relationship topics sure to put a smile on your face.

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YouTube Channel

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Watching and commenting makes you eligible for FREE upcoming events and notices. Leave your questions and I'll be certain to connect. Also, please share your feedback for future topics and feel free to tag someone who needs to listen to my message.  

See ya on the bright side! 

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Join Barbie's e-mail list & stay up to date with free resources, family tips, and upcoming events!

 

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30-Minute Consultation

Let me answer your questions

I listen without judgment and ask insightful questions to uncover what you truly seek and deserve.

As a former investigative reporter, I now coach and offer online courses to those with broken hearts seeking inner peace and truth after a failed marriage or relationship. I work alongside my clients to strategize, encourage, and empower them to lead their best lives.

Using self-learned, unique strategies, I help you overcome challenges, achieve your goals, and ensure you are seen and heard. My approach incorporates wisdom and practical steps for a harmonious life filled with joy and zest.

I welcome you with an open heart. Schedule a 30-minute consultation, and let me know how I can best serve you and your family.

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30-Minute Consultation

Let's connect to see if we are a good fit and answer any questions you may have. 

My coaching style is always to serve by being present and listening intently in order to discern what is in your highest good.  I am filled with questions but also want to know more from you and I do this by often asking a series of questions as we dialogue to unveil more of what you deserve.

 

As a former investigative reporter who today coaches and teaches families and singles alike… I feel more like a detective who strategizes alongside clients and empowers them to lead their best life. 

 

My highest desire is that you feel seen and heard and when coupled with my wisdom, will lead you to a peaceful harmonious life filled with joy and zest.  We can meet any way you feel most comfortable; via phone, face-to-face or virtually.  I will be fully present for you and you will sense it.   Please let me know how I can best serve you and your family.  I look forward to seeing you on the bright side.

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